Tomas Agency guide for strip dancers working or planning to work in strip clubs across Europe.

Here’s how to squeeze the most out of every conversation.

Clients choose strippers they feel good around. That takes more than a smile - it takes the ability to talk, listen, keep attention, and build a connection.

Questions are your ticket to VIP tables, champagne, and loyal clients. They don’t just keep the convo going - they help you feel out your client. As you talk, you adapt to his vibe, adjust your energy. Flexibility, playfulness, and a touch of surprise - that’s what makes a girl successful in the club.

Knowing how to listen to what excites others won’t just bring knowledge - it brings money.

💸 Want more dances, VIP, and returning clients?

Questions are your superpower. Ask with a smile, a little flirt, and gentle dominance.

🔥 Top questions to ask in the strip club:

• How’s your day going?

• Where are you from?

• What do you think of my butt? 😏

• What do you do for a living?

• Wow, I love how you smell - what’s that fragrance?

• What brings you joy in life?

• If money didn’t matter, what would you do?

• Do you like to dance? Want to try it with me? 😉

• What’s been your best vacation ever?

• Have you been to this club before?

• Do you have any pets?

• What’s your favorite restaurant in the city?

• If you could do anything - what would it be?

⏳ The 3 song rule - use it as your timer

Don’t waste too much time on one client. If after 3 songs you’re still just chatting - time to ask:

“Wanna grab a drink together? I’m sure we’ll have a great night.” 😎

❌ What to do if he says “no”?

“No pressure - have a great night!”

As you walk away - leave an impression, spark a little doubt.
A few drinks later, he’ll be hoping you come back 😁

Professionalism = self trust + a potential returning client.

💖 To wrap it up:

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